Depending on what you find when you re-inspect and if you still have a problem, you can search for what's known as a "stato-seal"
A stato-seal is a metal washer with a molded rubber seal on the ID, they are made as one piece. The rubber ID has a raised lip on both sides and will seal around the drain hole and the metal washer will serve as a positive stop so the torque will not squeeze the rubber seal out. Basically, when you tighten the drain plug down and reach the limit of the metal washer, the rubber will have the right amount of compression to seal around the hole without migrating / displacing itself.
I've used them in a lot of applications where a compression seal is needed but there is no metal lip or groove present to maintain the seal from squeezing out. They work the same as bronze type washers but better IMO because they are an elastomer seal - just be sure to choose the right material for the job... oils and fuels need NBR or FKM material. Water applications are safe with EPDM material.
Sources: McMaster-Carr, possibly your local hardware store or local automotive stores
DJs74