Oh boy, 2 answers, who has the correct one??? The water pump sucks water from the bottom radiator hose and into the motor, through the heads, through the intake, past the Tstat and back into the radiator. Sounds to me like the flow wants to suck water out of the back of the motor and not push into it like I thought.
So I would think connecting a T or Y to the intake heater hose side is the right location for return and the pump is the one pushing the water into the heater core. I might find out for sure and let water fly.
I'm thinking of connecting between the heater core and heater control valve so I can turn it on or off with a pull of the knob on the dash.
If its pulling water out of the rear of the motor then a Y would be the best bet so no cross flow problem.
Guess my question still stands, does water want to enter (push) into the rear of the motor or exit by pulling?