What he said. But if you did, and you are light, it won't settle that fast like you suspected.
Still, even though ours tend to sit high in the rear, that 2.5" IS quite a bit!
Both of the methods you cited are legitimate. You can remove the 3rd from the top and/or some from the bottom. The lowest have the least effect overall, but are good for fine-tuning as you know that it will lower you the thickness of the leaf. The upper one should theoretically drop you about 1" to 1.5" or so.
What's the number stenciled on to the top leaf? Maybe 1119?
Although, it sounds like you've got the right set based on the 10-leaf count.
Sorry about the added hassle. Still have happier customers with them tall at first and then settling in for the long haul, but yours is a bit on the extreme side.
For the driveshaft, it sounds like your pinion angle is off possibly. Would be worth sighting down the line from the side now, with the pack at full height, then checking it again with the leaf or leaves removed.
In case you're not aware, you're looking for your rear axle pinion to point almost straight up along the centerline of the driveshaft. A degree or two down from center is ideal.
Every Bronco is different, and many people still don't need any kind of a shim, but more and more we're seeing the need for them. And one of the clues is a too-short driveshaft with such a low amount of lift.
Let us know how it comes out.
Paul