I don't know if it really mattersfor security purposes, but I think I'd put mine on the positive side, because some accessories have their own ground, so they could still potentially drain your bettery, even if you have the ground side switch open.
I've had mine on the neg side for years, no issues.
Hot cables and a no start issues sounds like you have a starter or relay problem.
There's a reason the ignition switch is on the positive lead.
Check the cables for white powdery stuff near the battery ends inside the cable. They can corrode inside the casing and seem normal but be down to just a few strands carrying the current. (thus the heat) After you replace them do a post mortem. I would put the disconnect on the negative side of the battery as close to the battery as possible. It is just best to have as few connections on the positive side to make accidental contact with when wrenching and generally fooling around. The other problem you could have is a bad starter. They will run fine when cold but heat them up and the resistence goes up as well. Mine was turning slow when hot so I blew it out (carbon dust from brushes not letting them make full contact with the armature) and put on new cables. It spins like new now. It doesn't hurt to take the end cap off and touch up the armature with some emery cloth and contact cleaner either.
Would winching pull too many amps through the switch?






