I've run the BC arms since they came out, I think I got one of the first sets. Installed in 2006 and the Torque Tamer in 2007.
In 2013 I added the WAH to the front axle, Duff coil cups, and replaced 3.5 springs with 4.5 springs (springs are Wildhorses rockcrawler). At the same time I installed a cold duck doubler which created the issue with having to modify the torque tamer. I changed from dual shocks on the rear (springs are WH 11 pack, 3.5)to a single long travel Bilstein in front of the axle which helped the rear considerably. I ran it on the street some and immediately decided I needed the torque bar back on there. I moved the crossmember back and bolted in place, then connected the tamer back to the rear axle, then checked to see where the tamer needed to be cutoff to have it sit about like it was originally. I modified it and that is how it is today.
That's the best I can do to describe how it flexes now compared to when the Tamer was first installed in 2007. It has more flex and lower gearing.
Here are pics I took this morning sitting in my garage. I don't think it's bent as bad as I first thought. But this is the 2nd time, the last time the heim wasn't bent. I will need a new heim because it's bent in the threads. The bolt holding the heim is against the carrier and the bottom tab is bent. The bottom bar of the tamer is bent towards the passenger side slightly. I'm going to replace the heim, straighten the mounting tab at the rear, and move the mounting location on the crossmember over a couple inches.