What kind of wear? Are the splines twisted? That's pretty common on older ones that have been in accidents. Even those that have not been crashed hard can have some twist to the shaft, so it's one of those things we look out for when choosing a 4x4x2 core.
Good luck.
Paul
Did your Ford lower shaft fit on the Toyota splines?
this is what I'm running take a look. http://www.polyperformance.com/shop/Sky-Mfg-Toyota-Pitman-Arm-p-161.html
Use the stock pitman arm and change the taper or drill it for a hiem.
I see, I thought you were refering to the Toyota steering shaft had a ball joint. I bet you could pull it apart and get a 7/8" hole drilled. I may have an old Toyota arm from a lift I installed years ago in my shop off a 93 4x4 I can tear apart to measure if there is enough material. That way you will not have to break your good one.