I love a NP435!
I have two vehicles with NP435's, one where it is a bit tricky to get it into third, you have to stab it just right or it gets rejected; the other which is easier to get in, but it rattles like crazy under load.
I think that third gear is the NP435's Achilles heal.
I recall reading somewhere that there is an issue with flat towing and third gear as well, but I can't remember quite what.
Hard to get in is most likely the synchros for that gear.
I need to rebuild one of these so I have a better idea of what's going on.
Hinmaton