Ok there is no neutral safety switch on a manual transmission in an EB, only with an automatic. I suppose you could wire one up if you really wanted one.
The reverse lights: in the wiring harness there is a hot wire (12v)(when IGN switch is in the run position) to the trans and then a wire that runs to the reverse lights. The switch in the trans completes the circuit... No relays.
I used 16 gauge wire. A little bigger that the factory harness that is in my 77. Centec harness install will be done soon, but I did one in my 75 a few years ago...
Centec wiring harness for neutral safety: purple wire that goes to the starter solenoid would have to go through the neutral safety switch on the auto trans. So that the starter would only engage in neutral or park. No neutral safety switch in Manual trans, so just hook it directly to the starter solenoid. Unless you are going to make something custom for your NV3550, usually that takes the form of a switch tied into the clutch pedal, it must be depressed in order to start. Sorry if I sounded long winded, clear as mud now?
Doug