And while you said it's in almost all the way, can you still turn it in farther?
Maybe take it out and see how far it will actually screw into the fitting before it falls out the other side. Be even better if it's got some sort of stop, but if it doesn't this is a good argument for taking it out before experimenting with it going in all the way.
Once you can judge how far in it extends before any chance it will fall out, put it back in.
Or leave it at it's full extension, literally as far as it will go without falling through (maybe it's just a socket and can't fall all the way in), bring the piston up visually by looking into the spark plug hole (or using the straw/stick method mentioned) and then screw the stop tool back into the plug hole to see if it will still go in all the way.
If it still goes in after all that, the stop is too short for your application.
Which seems weird and not possible. But I've learned long ago to not be too surprised at stuff like this. Maybe they make two styles and this is the one for compact center plug high-compression engines with almost no clearance at the top of the piston.
Good luck.
Paul