Well after a few weeks of deliberation and calculations I ordered my disc brake kit today. I ended up going with horsepower sales off eBay.
After comparing the three local to me bronco shops and the horsepower kit I made them all the same. As far as bearings vs no bearings, braided lines compared to rubber, prop valve vs no prop valve. And after making the kits the same parts wise the horsepower kit came in at $733 with prop valve shipped to my door. Also spoke with Dan at horsepower and he is including fittings for the prop valve just in case, and the mythical washers and bolt for the axle end in case I need them.
He was very a great help asking all about my rig so I'm very confident it will go together without issues.
Thanks to all you guys for the tips and advise, this site and all you guys have saved me and countless others lots of cash by avoiding mistakes.
Two thumbs ups to all of you!!