Can't splice into the stock sending unit. That is just a variable resistor. And with the way the IVR works, not even a consistent reading.
My preferred method of controlling an electric cooling fan is a bit unconventional, but is now being used by some OEMs. I watch the water temp leaving the radiator. It requires a lower temp sending unit than typical. I think I last used a 160 on/140 off. It is really simple in how this works. So long as there is cool water entering the engine, it will regulate with the thermostat and stay at the proper temp. On the highway you don't need a fan with good ram air. So why run one just because you are at normal operating temperature?
When you don't have the airflow the water isn't being cooled enough in the radiator. The water leaving the radiator starts getting warm. This triggers the fan to cool off the radiator. When the water is cool enough, the fan turns off.
This of this, the fan is not cooling the engine. That is true. It is cooling the water in the radiator. And it only needs to cool when the water coming out is too warm.
Now I mention OEMs are now using this. I've seen new engines that have an added coolant temp sensor on the lower hose. Senses how warm the water is coming into the engine and if more fan is needed to cool that water.
The traditional fan switch is mounted in the intake by the thermostat. Often there are not enough ports to run it. There is a common waterneck that is tapped that can be used. It is after the thermostat. So only after the thermostat opens will the hot water reach this sensor. Now the tricky part of doing this, what sensor to use. You need to control the on and off switching points. Do you go low and have the fan run all the time there is any temp in the engine? You can get switches that come on before the thermostat opens. OK, so you step up a little bit and find a switch that turns on after the thermostat temp. What is the turn off temp? Usually a 20° swing on the thermal switches. So a 180° thermostat and a 200° on switch will probably never turn off as the switch will rarely cool below the 180° thermostat rating. So how hot are you will to let the engine get before the fan goes on? OR run a fan all the time even when it isn't needed?