Just another FYI, when I built mine I put 2 or 3 of the $0.57 ones in from the parts store, brand new, none of them acted properly, just like you say, some didn't even flash. They look like Picture #1 (aluminum Housing)
My parts guy had previously sold me a flasher for something else (what it was my mind escapes me) that is an actual relay, weighs about 2-3 oz, and you can see the coil inside of it. Cost was about $9 So I tried one of those in my 71 and haven't had a problem since. Picture #2