Would be worth a call to ARP too by the way. I don't know if they officially do anything about that kind of stuff (racing, performance, and many unknowns with non-pro builders, etc), but as a manufacturer, at the very least I think they'd want to know about a failure. And maybe they're just the ones in a position to help?
At least with some possible suggestions.
Point them in the direction of this thread even.
I'm not aware of any V8 engine of this type that requires you to go back and re-torque the head bolts. Doubt whether their stuff is any different from a fastener perspective, but maybe it's an aluminum head thing? Looks like you have the required washers under the bolt head. Are they flat on both sides, or is there a beveled side?
Could they have been installed upside down?
Paul