Coming from a bodyman thats been in the business for 15 years I like to think my mud work only needs one coat of primer or two if is going to be show quality.
Filler is cheaper than primer so make sure it is straight before you prime. 80 grit is for filler not primer, maybe 120 or 150 if you are not good at the filler work, then reprime as necessary.
I use evercoat metal glaze, a skim coat to blend the filler into the surround area then etch prime the bare metal then fill prime and block. And I agree with sealer before paint.
I am not knocking anyone for the way they do it, but I make my money on a commission basis, so I have to be fast and efficient and the quality has to be there also. The way I described it is probably the best way to do it, within reason. If anyone has a particular way they like to do, then for all means have at it.
I learn alot from this site and also try to help others and if someone is wrong or not well informed, then I think it is the responsibilty of the well informed to make corrections as necessary, or I would have made a few mistakes from what I have read in other posts. Just trying to help out and I greatly appreciate all the help I have received form the site and others.
