Yeah it’s definitely in 2wd and hubs unlock. Vent line has no unreasonable dips to trap lube. I’m gonna pull the vent hose off and drain it as well as siphon some lube out.
The vent hole in the factory retaining bolt has a tiny little hole in it. The theory is that it will never get oil past it, so it just needs to vent AIR. Your Eaton e-locker is a full case differential. When it spins, the body acts as a slinger, and once the oil gets slung near the tiny orifice, capillary action draws it into the hose. Subsequent thermal cycling pushes the oil up the hose.
I had a D44 HP in a TJ that had the same issue. It was a puker. The oil in the hose could never drain past the port in the fitting. So it acted like a check valve, and dribbled all the time. I had an ARB, but the slinging effect was similar. Worse, with my ARB, the seals leaked, so if you engaged the locker, it would cough up whatever was in the hose. That's how I knew that the hose was full. And yes, it had the same problem when I disconnected the ARB hose.
If you want to do something interesting, replace the hose with clear tubing. Then you will see it work its way up and out. Or just do what
@Yeller recommends. A ported tube in the fitting is a brilliant solution. Also you can open up the tiny hole in the fitting to allow drain back.
Just take some comfort in knowing that it isn't you, and you are not going crazy. I spent at least 6 months "not fixing" mine.