I like my 4:56 with 35's but think 5:13 would be better. Maybe one day.
Anyway, I tuned my shift points such that it did not hunt between gears at common speeds like 35, 45, and 65 mph and modified TC lockup logic since it can hunt as well with different combinations of speed and throttle position.. Wanted to make sure it utilized a decent amount of RPM before shifting so it doesn't bog down.
Some folks like to force it to go to 2nd when at a stop to prevent creeping but I didn't find it necessary.