Well I've run the 1250's several times and never had a issue with them. Once I even reused a set because the parts store didnt have any in stock. I dont see any major issues with repeated retorquing. Although if the engine was warm when you retorqued then it might cause a issue. Could be the machined surface on the manifold is just grabbing the gasket and pulling during heating and cooling cycles and with retorquing.
Might be worth trying the 1250S3's they are still printoseal but with the steel core.
Might be worth trying the 1250S3's they are still printoseal but with the steel core.