Well, I'd have to say that, just from the tone set here in this one thread, that hydroboost is more powerful than vacuum boost. And everyone that has installed hydroboost themselves and commented here feels that it was worth the additional cost.
But there are plenty of people that have vacuum boost and are happy with that as well.
We can't answer the money question for you though unfortunately. Just what it's been for those that have gone down that road. You're still deciding on tire size, so you should wait until that's been decided, or else just go big now and never worry about it if you go bigger in the tire department.
Your choice of 33's seems to be in the area that few really have any issues with vacuum OR hydro. But the choice of 35's is right on that gray area, where some are ok with vacuum, but most would recommend the hydro.
So it still comes down to your own personal sense of balance between cost and reward.
Paul