Found this in search because I had this problem too, and thought I'd add a bit.
I can't believe more people haven't had this problem. That connector wire is not long and the IAB, if rotated (per the instructions), points directly at the mounting of the throttle cable. There is no way the connector would fit in that direction. I had to grind a little off the IAB connector to help clear my MAF with coupling on it.
I ended up extending the wires 6 inches to bring it over the IAB and connect it in the original position.
Pics...