eb66to77 said:The only way the nut would be loose or able to be taken off by hand would be a failed nut or the indents meant to keep it tight on there were worn, so that would definitely be something to check. I don't think a novice would be able to tell unless the nut was in this state. Otherwise even fully seated the nut doesn't have much dfferent feel due to the hydraulic lifter.
Something jammed to bend that pushrod though. I am leaning toward valve guide is bad and allowed the valve to fall out of parallel and jammed causing the lifter to collapse and it this is the effect of metal on metal.
There will be speculation as to "why". I agree with everything that has been said here by everyone. The only way to know for sure is to remove the spring and feel the valve in the guide by working it up, down and rotating it with your fingers. If there is binding or slop the head comes off next.