You need to look at a 4R70W.
It will bolt to the existing V8 without adaptors.
Has a lower 1st gear.
Has a nice .70 overdrive
Has a lockup torque convertor.
Can take a lot of power right out of the box.
You put a nice little stand alone computer on is (
Baumann makes it) and you can get it to shift at the right times.
The stock shifter can be adapted to work if you desire
There are a couple of ways to put a transfer case on the back. Anything from a solid but generally cheap NP205, use a ZF adaptor kit. Those work if you start with a 4WD transmission. You can also use the Advance Adaptors AOD to Dana 20 kit with a couple of extra parts. The AOD kit works because this is a far superior moderinzed version of an AOD. It is heavy duty enough that it is still being used in 1-ton E350 vans.