Yeah, never heard of a 3.56. But hey, that does not mean they don't exist. I've seen plenty of gear ratios that were available from the factory for only one or two years, then were replaced by a different ratio a couple of numbers off. Or not at all.
Like down in the low 3's for 2wd trucks. A few odd ratios, so maybe there was a 3.56 after all.
But if you were building it up, you'd probably end up with a different ratio. Maybe he meant 4.56 instead? That's a very common ratio.
That or he just got his numbers skewed a bit from talking ratios too long!
Paul