Interesting thread. Dan, I think you'll be just fine. Just be sure to get a nice weld at the fishmouth at the front of the DOM tube, where it contacts the rear of the radius arm stub. You'll want to get all the rust off the radius arm. CLEAN metal. Make several passes.
As it turns out, I notched out the web of the stock arm also, just not as far as you did. I get paid to do structural steel stuff in a high-g environment, so I tend to worry a lot about stress paths. I wanted the top and bottom flanges of the stock arm tied together with the web for several inches back from the C, despite the presence of the extra metal of the DOM tube. But I notched out the back part of the web to reduce the sudden change in cross-sectional area at the aft end of the radius arm flanges, to avoid a stress riser at that location.
What's more, as beefy as the DOM tube appears to be, the stock arm is actually stiffer in bending about a horizontal axis (think coming down on a rock with the radius arm) until about 15 inches back from the C bushings. That said, I've come down on a rock with mine now a couple of times and only managed to scratch the POR-15 I used to paint the arms.
You guys all figured out my thinking on where to locate the bend. The forward part of my arms exactly follows the inward angle of the stock arms. That's not something I dreamed up; someone who made a set of arms much like this, but with straight tubes, pointed out that if he was doing it over he'd add the bend, because of how hard he had to pull sideways on his extended arms in order to line them up with the frame mounts. Lots of sideways preload in the C bushings, avoided with the bend.
Lots of people including Coby Hughey did experiments with various joints at the back end of stock radius arms years ago. They all claimed that the frame bushing had almost no effect on flex. But longer arms give more leverage on the real culprit, the C bushings. A wristed arm adds a pivot, effectively accomplishing the same thing.
My arms are extended 6 inches from stock. Everything's a compromise. I was trying to keep good street handling manners, since my Bronco really is my daily driver. I'm happy with how mine turned out, and I was pleasantly surprised when I ramped my Bronco. I have no trouble getting full stroke out of my 12" Fox shocks.