I don't feel comfortable recommending things per se, but the 5.0 isn't going to put out enough ooumph to kill the starter belhousing cutout that is required for the PA kit knowing that several of us with 575 + HP and 600 +ft lbs of torque have put it through for years with 40"s and larger OD tires. So far, so good.
You MUST address the TC issue by welding on mounting tabs to the TC to absolutely rule out any issues from the standoffs that space the converter to the flexplate.
I am almost done with an extensive 6r80 tech article with about 35+ photos that addresses a lot of this. Write up is done, just need to send the pics to Jon.
The 6r can be sourced from a 2014 and up (best years) F150, 4x4, with a 5.0 in it.
6r TC needs correct spacing and the best way is to weld tabs on the F150 TC for proper spacing with the PA kit.
6r TC needs an extension welded on to the snout of the TC for proper fitment into the crank with the PA kit
6r should have something to fill the top of the adapter at the top of the block so you can't drop tools, nuts, bolts whatever into your flexplate and TC with the PA kit. Wouldn't be a good mix. The bottom of the flexpate & converter is open to the world w/o and easy way to cover it. I have been known

to bury mine 40" deep in sand and I'm sure I polish my TC regularly when sand wheeling...

Easy fix for the upper 5" long gap, but $500 for a poorly designed adapter???
The SpeedGems is much more basic and sounds great- I just haven't installed one yet.
-Proprietary starter is a drawback
-13# TC mounting plate/spacer plate is a drawback but put a blower on it and make up for the slight power loss.
Any of this help??