can I buy this seal seperate?
Which seal are you talking about?
If you have leaks near the shift lever read the following.
There is a seal (Napa ATP 1404) around the shift shaft but you need to open it up and remove the valve body to change it. There is also a special quad-ring (Napa ATP 12069) between the shift shaft and the kickdown shaft that can be changed from the outside.
Change the quad ring first. That is a common leak. Remove the nut and kickdown lever and pull out the old ring. Lately I've been using a small o-ring behind the quad-ring because the hole in the shaft is really too deep for just the quad-ring. Clean the area, lube the new ring(s) and re-install. If it still leaks after changing the ring you'll need to pull the valve body to change the shift seal.
Those are the numbers I found on the Napa website. I have heard that the ATP 12069 ring is not quite right however. Some people report that it is just a standard o-ring. If this is true the only way I know to get the correct quad ring is in an overhaul kit. Like this:
http://www.bulkpart.com/2/product/C-4kits/26002C.html